Eros Daily Musings and Digressions

By Alessandro Della Casa on Gallery of Nudes

Wikipedia:

Among both sexes, the excitement phase results in an increase in heart rate (tachycardia), an increase in breathing rate, and a rise in blood pressure. An erection of the nipples, especially upon direct stimulation, will occur in nearly all females and approximately 60% of males. Vasocongestion of the skin, commonly referred to as the sex flush, will occur in approximately 50-75% of females and 25% of males. The sex flush tends to occur more often under warmer conditions and may not appear at all under cooler temperatures. It has also been commonly observed that the marked degree of the sex flush can predict the intensity of orgasm to follow.

During the female sex flush, pinkish spots develop under the breasts, then spread to the breasts, torso, face, hands, soles of the feet, and possibly over the entire body. Vasocongestion is also responsible for the darkening of the clitoris and the walls of the vagina during sexual arousal. During the male sex flush, the coloration of the skin develops less consistently than in the female, but typically starts with the epigastrium (upper abdomen), spreads across the chest, then continues to the neck, face, forehead, back, and sometimes, shoulders and forearms.

The sex flush typically disappears soon after orgasm occurs, but this may take up to two hours or so, and sometimes, intense sweating will occur simultaneously. The flush usually diminishes in reverse of which it appeared.

An increase in muscle tone (myotonia) of certain muscle groups, occurring voluntarily and involuntarily, begins during this phase among both sexes. Also, the external anal sphincter may contract randomly upon contact (or later during orgasm without contact)…

More here (19 pictures). From Met-Art

This is from the good old days, when a girl dressed up for her punishment caning, if she knew what was good for her:

See Also:Vintage Caning Photo

By Jessica Bennett

Terisa Greenan and her boyfriend, Matt, are enjoying a rare day of Seattle sun, sharing a beet carpaccio on the patio of a local restaurant. Matt holds Terisa’s hand, as his 6-year-old son squeezes in between the couple to give Terisa a kiss. His mother, Vera, looks over and smiles; she’s there with her boyfriend, Larry. Suddenly it starts to rain, and the group must move inside. In the process, they rearrange themselves: Matt’s hand touches Vera’s leg. Terisa gives Larry a kiss. The child, seemingly unconcerned, puts his arms around his mother and digs into his meal.

Terisa and Matt and Vera and Larry—along with Scott, who’s also at this dinner—are not swingers, per se; they aren’t pursuing casual sex. Nor are they polygamists of the sort portrayed on HBO’s Big Love; they aren’t religious, and they don’t have multiple wives. But they do believe in “ethical nonmonogamy,” or engaging in loving, intimate relationships with more than one person—based upon the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. They are polyamorous, to use the term of art applied to multiple-partner families like theirs, and they wouldn’t want to live any other way.

Terisa, 41, is at the center of this particular polyamorous cluster. A filmmaker and actress, she is well-spoken, slender and attractive, with dark, shoulder-length hair, porcelain skin—and a powerful need for attention. Twelve years ago, she started datingScott, a writer and classical-album merchant. A couple years later, Scott introduced her to Larry, a software developer at Microsoft, and the two quickly fell in love, with Scott’s assent. The three have been living together for a decade now, but continue to date others casually on the side. Recently, Terisa decided to add Matt, a London transplant to Seattle, to the mix. Matt’s wife, Vera, was OK with that; soon, she was dating Terisa’s husband, Larry. If Scott starts feeling neglected, he can call the woman he’s been dating casually on the side. Everyone in this group is heterosexual, and they insist they never sleep with more than one person at a time.

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Dear Slut,
My mouth isn’t all that big and my guy’s dick, well, is.  I tend to be over-careful when attending him so that he only feels the “soft parts” of my mouth. But that’s just not possible at some angles.

For example, when I’m lying down - because of his curvature he hits my top back molars and I can’t do anything about it.  The first time I freaked out and stopped it and said “We can’t do it this way, I’m going to hurt you!” but I’m getting the sneaking suspicion that he rather likes it.  I’ve tried asking him about it, but I haven’t gotten a direct answer yet.

So my question is… do some guys like a little bit of “teeth action”? If I think he likes a little bit of pain should I try (gently) taking it a little bit further next time? Or is it too dangerous of a zone to “experiment”? I want the truth about tooth!
Chewy Blewy

Dear Chewy,
One time I blew a guy and he asked me to “gnaw on it.” That surprised me, but I did. He’s the only guy I’ve met who was into teeth. Have you seen this cute video of a girl offering “the best blowjob ever”?

I got Beast’s input on this matter:

Chewy,

You should absolutely take cues from him on this matter.  As far as teeth go, I don’t mind a little here and there.  Sometimes I think I get more than I realize.  TBK has asked a few times if I noticed her teeth afterward.  When I told her no she was surprised because she felt like she absolutely raked my shit a few times.  If there is ever too much I say something like “OPEN,” or depending on the mood one might hear “Open your fucking mouth BITCH!!”, but that’s just me.

Side note:  If he is facefucking you, it is his responsibility to make it work the way he wants it!!!

The other option for you is to pay a lot of attention to the head with your tongue, lips and mouth, while working the shaft, balls, taint and ass with your hands.

Above all, if you are wondering whether or not your partner likes something or wants something different, you should ask them. If you feel you can’t ask him a question like that, then your teeth should be the least of your worries.

Keep Sucking,
Beast

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MySpace - A Gallery Corset piercing by Dan Brailey (born in 1987) from Phoenix.

Full short film celebrating six years of collaboration between Takashi Murakami and Louis Vuitton.
(via notes from somewhere bizarre)

Image of Elisabetta Canalis by Ms.KaT0.

Lux’s post directed my attention to Mr. Hotter As He Gets Older, George Clooney’s newest girlfriend Elisabetta Canalis — and her sexiness, to me, makes him seem ever more alluring. And she’s seriously drop-dead gorgeous. Lux has this collection of a few topless pics, but Ms. Canalis is a pinup model all over the net — a quick Flickr search (with Safe Search off) will yield hours a few concentrated and satisfying moments of enjoyment and envy. And inspiration.

::drool = girl crush::

Image of Canalis by austhorpewhite.

Image of Canalis by gattopalla.

Image of Canalis by nuj2006_ph.

Image of Canalis by nuj2006_ph.

Image of Canalis by Yag Bar.

Image of Canalis by m_alyan2000.

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