Eros Daily Musings and Digressions

This is Mrs.Valerie Lewis. (Via Bend Me Over)

More here (16 pictures). From MPL Studios

By Luci Gutierrez. A book from Artichoque

Found on Numaga

Psychology Today:

A few years ago German researchers reported that as the duration of partnership increases, sexual desire generally declines in womenwhile desire for tenderness generally declines in men. Usually the more frustrated partner (of either gender) quite logically assumes he would be perfectly happy if only he could have as much sex as he wants.

In fact, the situation is a bit trickier than that. Mates are actually up against a rather nasty subconscious genetic program, which often pushes them out of sync sexuallyand even onward to novel partners.

Consider what happened when male monkeys were paired repeatedly with the same females (who were always in the mood, thanks to daily hormone injections). Monkey heaven, right? Nope. The males copulated less and less frequently, and with declining enthusiasm, over a three-and-a-half-year period. Not only that, when novel females showed up, these slackers hurriedly rolled into action with their original zest.

So what would happen if your mate were always in the mood? Chances are good that you soon wouldn’t be…at least with her/him…

The punishment is over, the lesson is learned. No hard feelings. A quick cuddle, a comforting smile — and now, shall we get back to work?

From alt. binaries. pictures. erotica. vintage.

The New York Times recently published an article about alternative treatments for Erectile Dysfunction (turns out, Viagra doesn’t work for everyone). While I do think this country spends entirely too much time focusing on ED at the neglect of many other equally important concerns, I chuckled to myself as I came across this paragraph:

Another cost-effective option is a vacuum erection device or penis pump. It works like this: you place a tube on the penis and then pump the air out of the tube, which pulls blood into the penis. When the penis is erect, you then put a snug ring around the base to maintain the erection, which lasts long enough to have sex.

The cost for the device, which requires a prescription, can run from $300 to $600, but most insurers and Medicare will cover part of the cost and the device should last for years. Even if you spend $300 out of pocket and use the device once a week, you’ll be spending much less per year than on pills or injections. You can also buy a nonprescription pump online (even Amazon carries some) for as little as $30, Dr. McCullough said.

That’s right, ladies and gentlemen, we’re talking about penis pumps in the New York Times. As I was reading this, I couldn’t believe they decided to stress the prescription pumps which are so expensive and leave cheaper pumps as an after thought. I was also disappointed they didn’t mention that there are helpful and informative places to buy and learn about these pumps (ahem, Babeland) but what can I expect - it’s the New York Times, after all. We help plenty of people with ED and I bet it’s more fun to shop with us than from a medical supplier.

Did you catch the sideways mention of cock rings? Again, New York Times, just come right out and name the thing. How are people supposed to know where to get one or how to ask for it? Any doctor reading this article who might now decide to mention this to a patient may have no idea what it actually is or how to direct their patients to get one.

Although it doesn’t explicitly say this, this article does illustrate that sex toys can have many uses, from pleasure to health - or a combination of the two. The same toy can mean vastly different things depending how and why it is being used. Medicine often walks this line, helping patients with problems that are not just strictly medical but also quality of life issues as well.

Medical providers, have you ever referred a patient to Babeland? What for?

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More here (15 pictures). From NakedBy

One of my readers (I can’t remember which one!) sent me this video documenting sex via MRI.

At first I thought, yeah yeah, nice gimmick. I watched it, and discovered that it turned me on. !! Surprising, since I’m not usually into internal organs and medical porn.

I think the thing I find so sexy is that it really captures how the man invades the woman - impales her, fills her up, the merging of the bodies. It pretty much looks the way it feels to me.

I would LOVE to take part in sex research like this. It reminded me of Mary Roach’s book (now available in paperback!) Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex, where she volunteers to make love with her husband for the sake of medical research.

I want to get hooked up to a heart monitor (preferably in a hospital in the Netherlands) and have my breathing and blood pressure measured while Beast makes me cum without touching me, or some other atypical orgasmic scenario.

Do you think you could have sex in a lab, hooked up to equipment? What’s your favorite sex research fact? Do you think those mini-cams attached to a penis during intercourse is hot, or freaky? This video of a man ejaculating inside a woman is pretty interesting.

One of my readers (I can’t remember which one!) sent me this video documenting sex via MRI.

At first I thought, yeah yeah, nice gimmick. I watched it, and discovered that it turned me on. !! Surprising, since I’m not usually into internal organs and medical porn.

I think the thing I find so sexy is that it really captures how the man invades the woman - impales her, fills her up, the merging of the bodies. It pretty much looks the way it feels to me.

I would LOVE to take part in sex research like this. It reminded me of Mary Roach’s book (now available in paperback!) Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex, where she volunteers to make love with her husband for the sake of medical research.

I want to get hooked up to a heart monitor (preferably in a hospital in the Netherlands) and have my breathing and blood pressure measured while Beast makes me cum without touching me, or some other atypical orgasmic scenario.

Do you think you could have sex in a lab, hooked up to equipment? What’s your favorite sex research fact? Do you think those mini-cams attached to a penis during intercourse is hot, or freaky? This video of a man ejaculating inside a woman is pretty interesting.

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