Eros Daily Musings and Digressions

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I’m not sure whose catalog this is from (perhaps Irving Klaw’s?) but it’s clearly an ad for a movie or photoset (not sure which) for a whip extravaganza called Backstage Frolics:

The hat isn’t enough. Now her hands have been tied, and she’s about to be bent over for a righteous pedagogical caning: This classic illustration is by John Willie, and first appeared in one of his Bizarre magazines. See Also:Bondage Whipping Over A Fence

The way people are carrying on about me being in Hustler, you’d think I won the Nobel Prize or something.

March 2012 issue

In case you haven't heard, I'm featured in the current Hustler magazine. Here is what the cover looks like (refreshing that the woman is brunette, no?)

It's weird how photoshopped the women are - my friend thought the cover model looked like a cartoon.

They even airbrush their buttholes until they resemble slight dimples. If men are so obsessed with anal sex and sticking their penis into assholes, then why would you erase them?!

But back to me.

Matt, the guy who wrote the article, interviewed me over the phone back in the spring. He recorded our conversation and turned it into a 2+ page article featuring my story, with an underlying theme of sexual freedom and civil rights.

It's weird seeing me in the magazine. They photoshopped the hell out of me in an attempt to make me look more mainstream aesthetically (they digitally shaved my underarms!), but I still look different from the models featured throughout the magazine. I'm 20 years older than most of them!

Some of the things I'm quoted saying made me laugh out loud, "I said that?" I realize sheepishly.

I wonder what people will think when they read it. Will they feel connected to me, or alienated? I've received one thoughtful letter so far, which I will share with you soon.

On Wednesday January 18 from 6-9pm I'll be celebrating with the Sex Positive St. Louis crowd at the Hustler Hollywood store on Natural Bridge Road. You can buy a magazine and mingle with awesome people. They're also offering discounts that night for anyone who mentions The Beautiful Kind or Sex Positive St. Louis.

This is a great opportunity to meet me and the other local leaders. Don't forget we need to meet people face-to-face before they can attend our private SEX+STL events such as the clothing optional parties. We're also going to start offering edgy sex ed classes on masturbation, female ejaculation, oral sex and more.

 

 

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Copyright 2011, The Beautiful Kind

We’re taking the rest of the holidays off, but you don’t have to. Enjoy cut footage, behind-the-scenes and outtakes from all our previous episodes!

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I love/hate making YouTube videos. I love the creativity and freedom, but I’m afraid of the webcam lens.

TBK Jewelry!

If I could redesign this website, I would feature content in the following order:

Video podcasts - so proud of this new addition to the website!

My personal blogs - A classic favorite, I always have something personal to share!

YouTube vlogs - silly and fun!

Articles, reviews, sex information - the most useful stuff

While I'm on the topic of my dream website, I would also have much higher traffic and be making $2000/month from the website.

I'm glad I finally jumped on the vlogging bandwagon in 2011, because it really is a good option for sharing information and ideas.

And wow there is such a wide range of vloggers - some don't give a shit what their background looks like, and some do an amazing job with special effects.

I keep it simple with just a webcam and sharing 2 minute messages, but I try and make sure my house background is pretty and that I'm sporting a fun, new look, whether it be my wig phase or colorful clothing.

I was curious to see what my most popular videos have been. I've done 50+ so far, and here is a snapshot of popularity:

I'm Shaving My Head: 47,000 views
I Shaved My Head: 16,000 views
Hairy Armpits on a Woman: 30,000 views
Leaving for ideaCity: 3000 views
ideaCity Followup: 5000 views
I Heart Bisexual Men: 1700 views
Getting Out of Wig Phase: 1600
Pubic Hair on facebook incident: 1160

So it seems I accidentally stumbled upon two fetish markets - female shaved heads, and female hairy underarms. Nice! The comments on the videos are often hilarious. Did you know that if you shave your head, you must be a lesbian? And ladies, there are A LOT of men out there who love hairy underarms!

One thing that has really pissed me off is the fact that I've made four videos featuring sex toys, and they have all been removed for being inappropriate. All I did was talk about the toys, not give a demo, sheesh! I don't think there's anything inappropriate about educating adults about adult toys. And yeah, it's frustrating that there are thousands of videos out there that are way more raw dog.

It's so funny that even after I've done so many of these, I still get nervous when the webcam light goes on. I feel on the spot and unnatural, even though I'm an exhibitionist! I guess I'm most comfortably typing away, which was all I could do for years when I wasn't able to associate my face and name to my ideas.

I'm so grateful for all these platforms for sharing my message. I wonder how The Beautiful Kind will continue to evolve in 2012. I hope my laptop keeps working; I sure use the fuck out of it, even more than my Hitachi Magic Wand! It's a good thing WebMaster is on board, because I'm a technodork!

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Have you ever peeled a finger of fresh ginger and stuck it up your ass? I have.

This year was the fourth time we've been to the cabin, and it flew by faster than ever. The day after we returned I was really grumpy, suffering from cabin drop and feeling very put out that I had to take care of all the necessary duties and resposibilities instead of lying around all tied up in front of the fire sticking ginger up my ass.

Excuse me?

Every year we enjoy all the favorite traditions (watching Westerns, building fires, stargazing, listening to Iron & Wine, wearing pajamas or nothing the entire time), but we also like to incorporate something new into our repertoire.

Lately I've been on a ginger kick. I love theme events, so I packed a bunch of ginger goodies: tea, men, liqueur, soda, and of course, the root itself.

I was determined to drink the entire bottle of O ("there's nothing fake about it" ) that weekend (we all have our goals), but I couldn't quite get there. It started leaving a sickly sweet mossy film on my teeth that no amount of brushing could remove from my ginger-spiced psyche.

We also brought along this awesome vulva ornament our dear friend Rockabilly Girl gave us to hang above the fireplace:

Speaking of the fire, we had one blazing all weekend long, from the moment we crossed over the threshhold until the moment we regretfully stepped off the front porch to take our leave:

I loved how my signature K pendant glowed in the firelight:

Five minutes after the fire was blazing merry and bright, I stripped off a few layers and stood in front of Matthew in a tight tank top and boy shorts, a look he can never resist, so he pawed me and bent me over and we fucked as a necessary course of action.

Then we got in the hot tub and watched movies and ate a bunch of good shit and fucked again and so on until it was dark out and we stepped outside and were stunned to see the brilliant country starry night

WOW

The sky I normally see in the city:

The sky I saw out in the magical countryside, where humans interfered less with nature:

Like heaven, the cabin is a timeless experience. At one point, I was sitting by the crackling fire, wrapped in an ultra-soft blanket, sipping spiked apple cider and writing my holiday cards while Matthew snored nearby like a living, bearskin rug. Despite the appearance of my horrible unromantic handwriting, I was filled with woodsmoke, love and gratitude.

Then there was the ginger experiment.

Here is a closeup of the ginger I selected - doesn't it resemble a bear fetus?

Next to the fire, he lovingly and firmly tied me down and slowly peeled the ginger, paring it down with a razor sharp knife until it was smooth, skinless and gleaming. We had read about figging, aka raw ginger root up the ass, and I was nervous. It was supposed to be extremely intense for about 20 minutes, causing a person to writhe and lose their mind, with no lasting damage.

But it didn't do much for me. My asshole is such an uncooperative asshole!

We even put a slice of ginger on my clit, to no effect. But it made me taste interesting, so there's that.

Flogging - figging - knifeplay - being mindfucked and used - "you can create good memories here."

After it was all said and done, I would have rather played with a woman named Ginger than the root; it didn't do much for me. I'm willing to try again sometime with another piece, but I'm thinking redheaded women are more the way to go.

Can't wait for the cabin again. Not sure I can go another year, but we have a few other adventures to knock out between now and then - the Bourbon Trail in Kentucky, Dancing Rabbit, and more…

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HeadMaster Josh Nichols of KINK Hair Salon gets interviewed…and Kendra gets a makeover!

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Every December, we go to the cabin, and about two months prior, we start getting serious cabin fever.

We disappear here.

Matthew and I go to the cabin every December, and about two months prior, we start getting CABIN FEVER.

A couple days ago, he texted me: "I hope each morning, you're opening the Cabin Advent Calendar in your head."

I sure am! Do you want a peek inside? Open each little window and it will reveal:

Maker's Mark
truck
drunk
gluttony
lust
orgasms
smoke
bourbon cake
weed
hot tub
robes
fireplace
massage oil

Beard.

cum

country music
cabin playlist - example!
old traditions
new ideas
movies
heat
anal
love
warmth
cock
sex-scented beard
fantasy
roleplay
escape
sleep
connection
spanking
squrim
scream
pain
tears
us
timeless

yes

yes

yes

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Suzie Q + Leo Siboni are a couple of young artists and fashion photographers. Although Suzie studied graphic design in art school and Leo focused on film studies, it is actually in the photo section of the Gobelins School in Paris that they confessed their common taste for B and Z movies.

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