Eros Daily Musings and Digressions

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[Previously on... heels at Unscathed Corpse]

Here are some stills from the latest movie at Girl Spanks Girl starring Elise Graves, getting a heck of a spanking: See Also:Spanking Some BootiesVintage Girl/Girl SpankfightVery Public Schoolroom SpankingWide Eyed SpankeeHairbrush Spanking, Bound Wrists

• L.A.’s porn Mistake | Lorelei Lee (Salon.com) – What performers like Hartley and I are equally opposed to is being condescended to by hypocritical zealots like Weinstein and Lubben who are obviously motivated by a concern for something other than our health and safety. Who have, in fact, shown a “blatant disregard” for the health and safety of industry workers by making it more difficult for us to use the protections we already have in place when their actions led to the closure of AIM.
• Making a Fist of It: The Law and Obscenity | Freedom in a Puritan age – On Friday 6 January 2012, a historic case came to a conclusion in Courtroom 7 of Southwark Crown Court. Michael Peacock was unanimously acquitted, after a four-day trial that saw the outdated obscenity law of England and Wales in the dock…Peacock had been charged under the Obscene Publications Act 1959 for allegedly distributing ‘obscene’ ‘gay’ DVDs, which featured fisting, urolagnia (‘watersports’) and BDSM.
• Ask Tristan: Sex Toys and the Law • Pucker Up – [Ed. note: For this question, I turned it over to my legal expert, Davis from Sexquire.] So what does all of this litigation mean to sex shop clerks? First, unless you are in Alabama, you have no reason to fear being arrested on obscenity charges for providing sex education about or selling these products as other than novelties.
• Porn Star Activist Jiz Lee Talks About When and How Sex Workers Can Give Consent – San Francisco Art – The Exhibitionist – The ethics of consent is becoming a hot, vital topic of discussion in alternative sexuality communities. While talking about consent is something that never quite goes away, especially in BDSM communities, a lot of the dialogue doesn’t stray much beyond making sure that everyone is over 18 and knows his or her safeword. A few months ago, local activist bad-asses Maggie Mayhem and Kitty Stryker talked to us about their attempts to speak openly about abuse in BDSM and build “consent culture.” As they prepare to take those ideas on a cross-country tour, plenty of other people are continuing the conversation here in the Bay Area.
• Kate Bornstein reading excerpt from her new book, “A Queer and Pleasant Danger”
• The Case of Loving v. Bigotry – Slide Show – NYTimes.com – “In 1958, Richard & Mildred Loving were arrested in a nighttime raid in their bedroom by the sheriff of Caroline County, Va. Their crime: being married to each other. The Lovings…were ordered by a judge to leave Virginia for 25 years. The International Center of Photography is mounting a show of Grey Villet’s photographs of the couple in 1965 (January 20-May 6, 2012).
• Eric Holder Expands FBI’s Narrow, Outdated Definition Of Rape- MANCHESTER, N.H. — U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder has revised the way the FBI defines rape, the first update to the federal definition in nearly a century.The FBI’s Uniform Crime Report has defined rape as the “carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will.” This definition was narrower than the one used by many police departments around the country, and women’s rights advocates said it led to the under-counting of thousands of sexual assaults each year.
• Rape definition broadened to include men | CNN – The crime of rape will now be defined as “penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim,” the Justice Department said.

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02/17/2012
8:00 PM	to	10:00 PM

 

Feeling shy about talking dirty? Have a lover who wishes you would, but you sometimes clam up or struggle with obstacles to saying those sweet nasty things? Wish you could open the door to dirty words without shame? This workshop will be a fun exploration of dirty talk, why we like it, what we want from it and how to incorporate it with partners and make our scenes hotter. There is no one size fits all, so you’ll explore and practice what feels good for you, how to find common ground with your partners, and walk away with a bigger dirty vocabulary. Attendees can decide how much to participate but it will be guaranteed fun! C’mon’ say it like you mean it!

Where: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th St. (7th/8th Ave)
Cost: LSM Members: $5/Non Members: $10

About Amy JoGoddad

Amy Jo Goddard dedicates her life’s endeavors to helping people explore and improve their sexual lives. She has written and produced her plays about the vulva and dominatrixes, she has hosted web programs on women’s sexuality, she has taught first graders to college students about sexuality, and has been featured in Betty Dodson videos. A professional trainer of sexuality professionals, medical students, college students and youth for fifteen years, she has taught courses relating to sexuality at the City University of New York and the University of California at Santa Barbara and has presented internationally at conferences and kink community events like Dark Odyssey. She launched her intensive program for women in 2010, the Women’s Sexually Empowered Life program. She is co-author of Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men and her article about queer performance artists and activism was published in 2007 in the Social Justice Journal. She is director/producer of the forthcoming documentary, At Your Cervix. Amy Jo maintains a private sex & relationship coaching practice and travels to colleges and universities speaking about sexuality. She was chosen by GO! Magazine as one of “100 Women We Love” in 2010. She can be found online at www.amyjogoddard.com.

About Lesbian Sex Mafia

Lesbian Sex Mafia (“LSM”) is a social and educational organization for women and transfolkwho have a positive personal interest in BDSM with other women. Our tenets are safety, consensuality, confidentiality and the right of women to explore their sexuality as they choose.

Membership in Lesbian Sex Mafia is open to all women 18 years of age or older including gay, straight, bi, and transsexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women, and all female-born transgendered persons who have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. For membership information and benefits please visit www.lesbiansexmafia.org.

LSM reserves the right to deny admission to non-members it has reason to believe will not abide by the LSM principles of safety, consensuality and confidentiality.

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No member is turned away from an LSM event based upon ability to pay. Please contact us in advance to request a scholarship.

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I’ll be in China until Feb. 7. Have lots of good sex while I’m gone, OK?

This was an image I used on my blog four years ago

Last year I was sued, was out of work, and was about to lose my house. Fast forward three months.

For the second time in my life, I'm getting a free trip to China. I leave tomorrow and will be gone until Feb. 7.

The last time I went was about four years ago. In that post I wrote:

"So I'm going to be in China for two weeks. How the fuck this happened is anyone's guess. I can't wait to be a goddess over there - I hear they'll dig my long blond hair. (Guess I'll shave it when I get back? I haven't decided.)"

HA! It took me two more years to muster the courage to shave my head, but I did it!

I'll be mostly in the Shanghai area. I hear it's one of the most vertical cities in the world, not just up, but down. You could live underground there and never see the light of day. Everything is so amplified there. 20 million people live in the city of Shanghai. (For comparison, 34 million live in the entire state of California.) I could stand some culture shock, and I always like experiencing new things.

Excerpt of a letter from my host in China:

"Welcome to China. Suzhou is one of the beautiful city in China, Suzhou Gardens are the best famous, there are some ancient towns in Suzhou, such as ZHOUZHUANG Town, TONGLI Town. Suzhou is worth to visit city, but there is a litter cold in February, please keep warm."

Can you imagine if I tried writing him back in Chinese? Can you say LOL in Chinese??

So here's the deal: You all know I drink, fuck, tweet and post updates on facebook like there's no tomorrow. I'm also a slave to this website (slave is an appropriate term because I DON'T GET PAID.) I'm also addicted to my smart - no, wait - trickphone.

Well, for one week, I'm going to eschew all these things. I shall throw off the shackles of familiarity (no Hitachi Magic Wand!) and embark on a new routine (helllo, hand).

People, those are a lot of addictions to address. This is going to be so good for me.

If you need to get in touch, I'll be checking email: kendra @thebeautifulkind.com

I'm going to miss my people! Matthew and I soaked each other up this weekend and I'm seeing my daughter one last time before I take the 14 hour flight halfway around the world.

I've been studying up on China in preparation for the trip. One of the books I'm reading is The Man Who Loved China: The Fantastic Story of the Eccentric Scientist Who Unlocked the Mysteries of the Middle Kingdom.

I thought it would be a pretty dry read, but I have a thing for quirky scientists who get obsessed with things. I was pleasantly surprised to learn that the main character, Joseph Needham, was an enthusiastic nudist and practiced non-monogamy.

He married his wife Dorothy on Friday the 13th, 1924, and they had an open, international marriage that lasted 63 years. Interestingly, when Dorothy died in 1987, he married his long-time (as in 50 years) mistress, Lu Gwei-Djen. But she wasn't really a mistress, because they all hung out together, traveling and doing research. Sigh, sounds so romantic!

One thing I won't be giving up while I'm there is good food. I can't wait to eat real Chinese food, meet new people, stay in nice hotels and have my mind blown!

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The New York Times’s T Magazine posted an interactive photo gallery called Model-Morphosis where you control a slider to see how models are done up with makeup and styling for runways fashion shows. And in my opinion the models are always more pretty in the “no makeup” version…
[Previously on... supermodels at Unscathed Corpse]
[Thumbnail: Iris Egbers, Daria Strokous and Jacquelyn Jablonski]

Let’s test out the new template by posting a larger picture. Here’s a spanking machine / spanking workout bicycle, as imagined by Eric Stanton in his comic Fifi Chastises Her Maids: See Also:Eric Stanton OTK SpankingSpanked By Her HusbandWife Spanking, Stanton StyleAn Electric Spanking For BlunderBroadA Girl Whipping By Eric Stanton

Hey, everybody. My apologies for the limited spanking updates recently — I’ve had my head “under the hood” mucking about with the WordPress templates, which are ancient and creaky and full of horrible code and bad CSS. The thing that impelled me to tackle this round of redesign is my own aging eyes. The previous [...]

I can’t ever get enough of Akif Hakan Celebi. Shared the first time six years ago!!

Sabrage from “Prepare To Fight” EP, out now on Cheap Thrills. This is a tribute to the amazing 1968 mondo movie “Svezia, inferno e paradiso” by Luigi Scattini (1927 – 2010).
[Previously: I can see boobies]

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